David Feherty reveals addiction relapse in wake of son’s death: ‘It had me under control’

March 25, 2019
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Golf analyst David Feherty has long spoken openly of his drug and alcohol dependencies, crediting Tom Watson in part with helping him get sober in 2005. But as Feherty revealed on the latest episode of HBO’s Real Sports, his son’s death in 2017 led him to relapse.

In an emotional interview with Bryant Gumbel, Feherty said he temporarily began drinking again after his son, Shey, died of an overdose.

“I was at a friend’s ranch and I’d gone up there to be by myself,” Feherty told Gumbel. “I thought, ‘You know what? I’ve been sober 10 years.  I’m tired of it. You know, I’m tired of being sober. I wanna feel better.’ And I convinced myself that it would make me feel better.

“So, there was a bottle of Irish whiskey there, which is, like, an angel cryin’ on my tongue. But oddly enough, it didn’t — tasted awful. But I made myself drink more. I thought, ‘Heh, I’ve got this under control. I don’t have to drink that much.’ You know, the next day I did the same thing, and I thought, ‘Well, I’ve got it under control.’ Before I knew it, you know, it had me under control.”

Gumbel says on the program that Feherty is once again sober, but it remains a “constant struggle.”

Feherty’s son died on his 29th birthday, having also battled drug addiction and mental illness. During his interview with Gumbel, Feherty visibly chokes up when discussing Shey and how much he misses him.

“I’m sorry, son. You know, I wasn’t there,” Feherty said. “I just … I mean I just wasn’t there. I was always gone. Times that I was drunk. The times that I was high. They could have been times I would have spent with him.”

Gumbel’s interview with Feherty also explores his deep-rooted commitment to his job and comedy. The episode debuts on HBO Tuesday at 10 p.m. ET. You can check out a preview below.